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what hook for customize preview refresh

I would like to show an empty preview with custom message
when a control has changed value
the control has the default refresh transport.
I tried many hooks but mainly I think this is closest match to do the job customize_preview_init
and conditional tags like is_preview() and is_customize_preview(). but such simple task seems impossible on wordpress.
any hints or how to takle this is appreciated.